I have my love to keep me warm!

Well, you know the words of the old song don't you.
At present, we are deep in snow here & it's tough getting out on foot, let alone in the car.
Secret liaisons with secret lovers are doubly difficult at this time of year.
Worse still, if you made the date before the snowfall & now can't get to the rendezvous, you must be throwing things at the wall!
So, why not take the time to compose a letter to your secret lover. Write down all the things you have wanted to say, but never dared. Don't be too mushy about it, just be plain honest about your feelings.
It will help get your own head sorted about the relationship & your lover might be surprised about the depth of your feelings. They might even dare to reveal there own!
Spring is around the corner, so chin up, get your letter written, even if you never give it to them.
Have a good week.
Inkflo

Married men or batchelors, as lovers?

Which men make the best lovers?
Mmm, difficult one this, but I would say that older, single men aim to please more, but are fully aware that they can drop you without a second thought. They are known in social circles to be available, and generally don't hesitate to string along more than one woman at a time. It's part of the fun of being single & older!
I'm not saying that all batchelors are like this, but you are quite likely to meet a fair few who are exactly like it. If you are as happy, just enjoying the fling, no strings attached, then fine, why worry.
Married men on the other hand are a different matter. They will, in general tend to have an affair with one woman at a time & then when that's finished, move on to the next. A married man who strays, will undoubtedly do so again, and if the affair becomes too serious, they are sure to turn & run... until the next time.
You will never pin a married man down, especially if he has children, and be prepared to sit home alone on all of the big holidays,as that's when he'll be with his wife and family playing the devoted father.
Sure, he'll think about you, sitting at home, eating your thanksgiving dinner or your Christmas cake alone, but not to worry, he'll make it up to you with a gift or a phone call as soon as the holiday's over!
If you are able to send him a romantic greetings card, try here... http://www.greetingcarduniverse.com/chezinkflo
So, at the end of the day, it's your choice, be aware of just how many other people you may be hurting by having an affair with a married man, and be aware that your single & forty something male, will quite possibly be casting his net much wider than your pond. It's up to you.