My first married affair.

I was so young when I had my first affair. I was also newly married.
This may horrify some people, but the truth is that I shouldn't have married at all.
I was far too young at 19 and far too inexperienced.
Life back then was so different from today and we were all pretty naive, I can tell you.
Any man that spoke kindly to me then, especially if he paid me attention, had my undying devotion!
Sounds mad now doesn't it, but there we have it, totally true.
I met my first lover through work. He was seven years older than me, but he had a way of staring into my eyes as though there was no one else in the room.
I must have been a real pushover, but our secret meetings in his office after hours, were the most exciting I have ever known.
We made love on the carpet, and to this day, I think about the people who visited that room to hold important meetings and never knew what had occurred there the previous evening!
I'm sure that this goes on in millions of offices and stationery cupboards all over the world, but to me, at that time, it was a revelation.
Then, we took it even further....
To be continued.

Married men or batchelors, as lovers?

Which men make the best lovers?
Mmm, difficult one this, but I would say that older, single men aim to please more, but are fully aware that they can drop you without a second thought. They are known in social circles to be available, and generally don't hesitate to string along more than one woman at a time. It's part of the fun of being single & older!
I'm not saying that all batchelors are like this, but you are quite likely to meet a fair few who are exactly like it. If you are as happy, just enjoying the fling, no strings attached, then fine, why worry.
Married men on the other hand are a different matter. They will, in general tend to have an affair with one woman at a time & then when that's finished, move on to the next. A married man who strays, will undoubtedly do so again, and if the affair becomes too serious, they are sure to turn & run... until the next time.
You will never pin a married man down, especially if he has children, and be prepared to sit home alone on all of the big holidays,as that's when he'll be with his wife and family playing the devoted father.
Sure, he'll think about you, sitting at home, eating your thanksgiving dinner or your Christmas cake alone, but not to worry, he'll make it up to you with a gift or a phone call as soon as the holiday's over!
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So, at the end of the day, it's your choice, be aware of just how many other people you may be hurting by having an affair with a married man, and be aware that your single & forty something male, will quite possibly be casting his net much wider than your pond. It's up to you.

When did I start flirting?

Phew, this is a difficult one to answer.
I suppose it was when I first widened my big blue eyes to a male and got a response that said "I really want you."
Probably when I was about sixteen and didn't realise that I was stirring feelings in him that he might not control.
It also gave me a great sense of power to be able to do this and it became very difficult to stop at the eyes thing. I'm sure that most females would admit, it gives them a buzz to be able to stir feelings in men that they can't control. It probably comes from the fact that most men like to take control of everything & everyone from a very early age.
The first boy that fell under my spell, lived a bus ride away from me & one Sunday, he asked me to his parents house for a visit.
All the way there on the bus, there was a tension between us that I had never felt before, and it left me wondering, was this love, lust, nerves? Whatever, I had never experienced the feeling before and I had no idea of what was to follow at the end of the bus ride.





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